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Have I Ruined My Child's Sleep?
"I think I've ruined my child's sleep." If I had a pound for every time a parent said those words to me, I'd probably be writing this from Barbados! 🏝️🍹 Whether you've fed your baby to sleep, rocked them for every nap, stayed beside your toddler at bedtime or cuddled your child back to sleep during a difficult phase, it's so easy to worry that you've created bad habits. But here's what I want you to know. I've never worked with a family whose child's sleep was "ruined." Eve
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Why Won't My Child Fall Asleep Without Me?
If bedtime has become an hour of lying beside your child, waiting for them to fall asleep, you're not alone. One of the most common concerns I hear from parents of school-aged children is: "My child won't fall asleep unless I'm next to them." Many parents worry they've created a bad habit or that they've somehow got bedtime wrong. But that's rarely how I see it. Let's investigate... It's not always about habits As children get older, bedtime can become about much more than si
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Why Has My Baby Suddenly Started Fighting Naps?
If your baby has suddenly started fighting naps, it can feel like their sleep has changed overnight. One day they're happily settling for naps. The next, every nap feels like a battle. It's easy to assume something has gone wrong. But nap refusal doesn't always mean your baby doesn't need sleep. Let's investigate... Has your baby's sleep needs changed? As babies grow, the amount of sleep they need gradually reduces. They become capable of staying awake for longer and, eventua
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Not Every Sleep Challenge Is a Sleep Regression
One of the biggest myths I hear from parents is that every sleep challenge must be a sleep regression. A few extra night wakings? Sleep regression. Nap refusal? Sleep regression. Bedtime suddenly becoming difficult? Sleep regression. While the 4-month sleep regression is a genuine developmental change, not every sleep challenge is caused by one. So what else could be going on? Your child's sleep needs may have changed As children grow, the amount of sleep they need changes to
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Why Is My Baby Waking at 5am Every Morning?
Early morning waking is one of the most common reasons parents get in touch with me. The first assumption is usually that their baby is overtired and needs an earlier bedtime. But in many cases, that's not actually the reason. Let's investigate... Clue #1: How much sleep are they getting over 24 hours? I don't use generic wake windows because they don't suit every baby or child. Instead, I look at 24-hour sleep needs. Every child has an amount of sleep they're naturally capab
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Why is my newborn awake all night and asleep all day?
If your newborn seems wide awake overnight but sleeps soundly throughout the day, it can feel like they've got their days and nights completely mixed up. The good news? In those early weeks, that's actually very common. Here's why it happens and what you can do to gently help your baby's body clock mature. Why does it happen? Babies aren't born with a mature circadian rhythm. They don't yet understand the difference between day and night and their body clock develops graduall
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Have I Created a Bad Habit?
The Truth About Newborn Sleep If you’ve ever found yourself Googling “Have I created a bad habit?” while holding your newborn at 2am, you are far from alone. It’s one of the most common worries I hear from new parents. You might be wondering: “Have I made a mistake by letting my baby sleep on me?” “Am I creating a dependency because they fall asleep while feeding?” “Why does my baby wake up every time I put them down?” “Should I be encouraging independent sleep already?” When
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Why your child is waking early (and why it’s not always overtiredness)
Early morning wake-ups are one of the most common sleep challenges I see from exhausted parents. And one of the most frustrating parts is how quickly they end up second-guessing everything. Most parents assume early waking means their child is overtired and needs more sleep or an earlier bedtime. But more sleep or earlier bedtimes don't usually fix the early rising. Here are four of the most common reasons I explore with families when a child is waking early. #1: Look at tota
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The Most Common Baby Sleep Mistakes (And How to Avoid Them)
If you’re a parent navigating the unpredictable world of baby sleep, you’re not alone. Many families feel pressure to follow strict schedules, use apps, or stick rigidly to rules they’ve read online only to find that their baby still struggles to sleep. The good news? Small adjustments can make a huge difference. In this post, we’ll explore the most common baby sleep mistakes I see and how to avoid them so your baby can sleep longer, nap better, and feel more rested (and so
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How much sleep does your baby or child actually need?
A Practical Age‑by‑Age Guide Sleep isn’t just “time spent in bed.” It’s a vital part of your child’s physical growth, brain development, emotional regulation, behaviour, learning, and immune health. In this guide, we break down the sleep ranges that experts recommend for each age group , explain what those numbers mean and offer handy tips to help you navigate that age. Newborns (0–4 months) Recommended: 14–17 hours per 24 hours Newborns spend most of their early weeks asle
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You Don’t Have to “Cry It Out” to Help Your Baby Sleep Better
For many parents struggling with sleepless nights, the internet often presents two extreme options: either you let your baby cry it out or you do nothing and hope the sleep struggles eventually pass . It can feel like there’s no middle ground. But there is another way. If you’ve been feeling stuck between these two extremes, you’re not alone and there are supportive alternatives available. The Myth That Cry It Out Is the Only Solution When parents search online for help with
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How to Choose the Right Sleep coach for Your Family
If you’re currently searching for help with your child’s sleep, you’re not alone. Thousands of parents go online every day looking for answers about baby sleep problems, sleep training, and how to help their baby sleep better. For many families, hiring a sleep coach or baby sleep consultant can feel like the next logical step after weeks or months of sleepless nights. But before you commit and hand over your money, it’s important to make sure the sleep expert you choose is t
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How to manage the Autumn Clock Change
Mid October already means that the Autumn clock change is around the corner. Do you feel confident managing this with your little one?...
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Is 'controlled crying' gentle?
I have read so many social media posts and blogs stating that controlled crying is a 'gentle' form of sleep training and unfortunately, I...
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Thinking you need to ditch the comforter? Please don't!
Have you been told to ditch your child's comforter? If you do, it'll help them sleep better, be less dependent etc? Well, here's why I...
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My baby only naps on me. Is that OK?
Does your baby love a cuddle at naptime? Do they sleep for longer stretches on you rather than in their cot? If you answered yes, that’s...
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Can I carry on breastfeeding and improve my baby's sleep?
I believe that you CAN feed your baby to sleep and STILL have a beautiful sleeper. Why? Because sleep challenges are not all about how...
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Feeling nap-trapped?
Are you feeling stuck inside because that's the only place your baby will nap? Or it's where you think your baby will get the best sleep...
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What are wake windows?
You may have heard this term springing about and are wondering what it means or how it's useful to you and your baby. Well, to keep it...
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Stop Relying on Wake Windows
STOP watching the clock and relying on wake windows... START reading your baby's sleep signs instead Why I hear you ask? Babies show...
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